The Intentional Way
BeginA free marriage health assessment built from more than 20 years of counseling couples.
Discover what’s really happening beneath the surface of your marriage.
Most marriages don’t fall apart overnight. They drift. The Intentional Marriage Health Profile™ helps you identify your greatest strengths, uncover hidden growth areas, and receive practical next steps rooted in biblical truth and more than 20 years of marriage counseling experience.
Private • 5–7 minutes • Personalized results
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Marriage Health Report
Marriage Profile
Growing but Drifting
Greatest Strength
Purpose
Growth Area
Security
Your Next 30 Days
A simple plan for reconnection
Healthy marriages aren’t found. They’re built intentionally.
Most couples know something feels off before they know what to call it.
You may still love each other deeply, but feel like something has shifted. Conversations feel harder. Connection feels less natural. Life gets busy, and without realizing it, small moments of distance begin to grow.
Think of it as a warm marriage checkup: a simple marriage assessment that gives you language for what is happening, clarity about where your marriage is strong, and practical next steps for where intentional growth can begin.
See Your Strengths
Identify the areas of your marriage that are already healthy and worth protecting.
Identify the Drift
Discover where distance, insecurity, conflict, or disconnection may be growing beneath the surface.
Take the Next Step
Receive a simple growth plan with practical actions, prayer, and recommended reading.
What You’ll Receive
Your personalized Marriage Health Report includes:
Your Marriage Profile
Overall Health Indicator
Category insights across 8 key areas
Your greatest strength
Your greatest growth area
Why couples get stuck there
A 30-day growth plan
A guided prayer
A clear next step
Eight areas that shape the health of your marriage.
The Intentional Marriage Health Profile™ looks beyond surface-level problems and helps identify the patterns shaping your relationship.
Identity
How securely each spouse understands who they are in Christ.
Purpose
Whether your marriage has a shared direction and sense of calling.
Security
Whether honesty, vulnerability, and emotional safety can grow.
Acceptance
Whether your home feels marked by grace rather than performance.
Communication
How well you listen, express needs, and pursue understanding.
Conflict
Whether disagreements lead to repair or recurring resentment.
Emotional Connection
Whether friendship, affection, and tenderness are being nurtured.
Spiritual Connection
Whether Christ is shaping how you forgive, serve, and grow together.
This is for couples who want clarity before crisis.
This profile is for couples who are willing to be honest about where they are and intentional about where they are going.
You feel like you are functioning more than connecting.
You keep having the same conversations without resolution.
You love each other but feel emotionally distant.
You want a Christ-centered way to evaluate your marriage.
You want practical next steps instead of vague advice.
Counselor-informed and faith-based
Built from more than 20 years of marriage counseling experience.
Bryan and Stephanie Vignery created The Intentional Marriage Health Profile™ to help couples move from vague concern to clear understanding. This tool reflects the same counseling-informed and Christ-centered principles found in The Intentional Marriage: A Guide to Building Love That Lasts.
This is not designed to shame your marriage or label your spouse. It is designed to help you see what is healthy, what is drifting, and what intentional growth can look like from here.
“Healthy marriages aren’t found. They’re built intentionally.”
Meet Bryan & Stephanie
Bryan and Stephanie Vignery have been married for more than 23 years and are the authors of The Intentional Marriage: A Guide to Building Love That Lasts. Bryan has counseled couples for more than 20 years, helping them move from confusion and disconnection toward clarity, healing, and intentional growth. Together, they created this Health Profile to help couples see where their marriage is strong, where it may be drifting, and what practical steps can help them move forward.
Ready to see where your marriage stands?
Take a few honest minutes together and receive a personalized Marriage Health Report designed to help you reconnect, rebuild, and grow with intention.
Free • Private • Takes about 5–7 minutes